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If you can’t Build with them, you can’t Chill with them!

If you can’t Build with them, you can’t Chill with them!


This is the Funkin’ Lesson that everyone experiences but finds it hard to apply. Why? Because as humans we are often simply selfish in terms of wanting what we want, when we want it and with whom we want to have it. The problem with that is that Life simply doesn’t always work in accordance with what we want. Hard lessons are those blessings in disguise that we never ask for but are intended to teach us something we should never forget. One of the things I have learned is that no matter how bad you want certain people around, it is futile to try to make “We” plans with “I” kind of people. Can’t write the next line in the story if you are not on the same page.

Personal truths are vital to growth and the truth is everyone in your space is supposed to add value to your life. All your relationships should add to your “Why” in some way, shape and form and if they don’t how are they helping you do better? How can you celebrate with someone who wasn’t vital to the accomplishment? You can try, but they won’t appreciate the moment if they weren’t a part of making it happen so why chill with them? Your TURN UP should be reserved for the people who SHOW UP for you! Those who push you when you’re stuck, those who motivate you when you want to quit and those who lift you up when you fall are the ones helping you BUILD. Therefore, who else should be more worthy of the celebratory “Chill” than those who help you “Build”? They are your team, your crew, and the ones that help you do what you have to do to be the Best YOU!! Anyone else is just a bystander stuck in mustard trying to ketchup (catch up) to your greatness. It is important to put your Aces in their Places when you want to grow so recognize who the Real Roxanne’s truly are that want to help you make what you WANT something you actually HAVE in the future.

As always it is my pleasure to bring you another B Cyde Mental Meal to feed you throughout your week. Plan to JOIN the JAM with the show dubbed the Soul Train of Radio, Back on the B Cyde Saturdays at 11am only on the award winning

Tracie Christian

November 28th, 2015

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